How can you “enforce” climax denial on a man?
Well, the simple response is actually “you can’t”. It should be non-reflex and he has to be a ready participant. Even locking him away in the chastity belt or other device is not likely to stop him from achieving orgasm in some manner if he is really identified.
But there are some measures you can take to create his orgasming less likely, especially as it’s obvious some occasions are more “dangerous” than others.
It may come as a bg surpise to discover most men who are going through long-term orgasm denial are not actually walking around with the eager need to cum, 24/7. The feeling is described by most as “permanently getting halfway in order to orgasm”, and it by all records (including that of my long-term denied hubby, John) very pleasant.
But note it is only half method. It’s much rarer you think for the orgasm-denied man to find the urge to slip of somewhere calm and have sexual satisfaction on the calm because of some burning up need to get reduction.
So the biggest danger points are generally:
- In the shower (strange however true)
- First thing each morning when he wakes up (obvious if you think about it)
- When you’re making love and he’s pleasing you and/or you’re teasing him.
The answers to 1 and 2 simple: ensure he’s locked in the suitable chastity belt or device. They are not intended to be 100% certain – but , after that, they don’t need to be. They need only be good enough to act as a deterrent or barrier.
You can help him by ensuring he gets away from bed within the mornings very soon after getting up, through ensuring he does not spend too long in the bath (some women choose to supervise showering, even if he is locked in the gadget, but for me I think that’s overkill. But if functions for you personally, then by all means perform it).
So the only really troublesome one is when you’re making love, or perhaps teasing him.
We have found probably the most effective ways to avoid “accidental” orgasm is to take him right to the peak of orgasm before you get too seriously involved in your sexual intercourse. It’s certainly counterintuitive, most man report once they know where the “edge” of their orgasm is actually, it’s much easier so they can manage it.
Additionally, if you all of a sudden sense your man is actually dangerously close to climax and has lost all reason and control, then a firm squeeze on the end of their penis, or the very base of the shaft could possibly finish him dead in his tracks.
And when he’s even too far gone for this, then you can certainly always quit all stimulation immediately and treat him to a “ruined orgasm”. Inde i promise, they are not whatsoever bit satisfying or pleasurable, and they’ll leave him even more frustrated than before.
Nothing of this is very difficult, and it’s all really just a couple of practice and getting informed. You can work it by yourself, but it is often easier to do your quest and benefit from others’ encounter.